Frequently Asked Questions on Gay Hook Ups
Please use this FAQ section to answer many of the questions you may have about your different components on gayhookups.net
Creating your Profile
How do I create my profile?
What is a headline?
How do I build my profile?
How do i edit my profile?
How do I use HTML in my profile?
What are some tips to remember?
Can I preview my profile?
Looks aren't everything. Why should I post a photo to my profile?
Can I hide my photo?
How long does it take to have my profile approved?
Why do you approve profiles?
How do I temporarily turn my listing off?
How do I permanently remove my listing and delete my account?
Are profiles Censored or is there a limit to what I can put in it?
Online Experience
What happens when I click "Online"?
What happens when I click Rate Photos?
What happens when I click "Top Photos"
What happens when I click "Members"?
What happens when I click "Top Members"?
General
What is a headline?
Can I report Abuse or other Guidelines that people do not follow on GayHookUps.net?
Why do I see my old images after I delete them?
Do you tell other members my e-mail address or real name?
Are there any hidden costs?
Do you monitor or edit my private messages that I might send to other GayHookUps.net members?
How can I contact your customer service department?
Are all these people real? Am I going to meet someone?
Is GayHookUps really free?
Is online social networking really safe?
Blogging
What happens when I click on "BLOGS"
Is Credibility important for a BLOG?
What is a blog
What are the features of a Blog?
I don't know where to start? I don’t know how?Photos
How do I post pictures on GayHookUps?
Is a photo mandatory?
What type of photo can I upload?
I posted my picture but I don't see it online, why?
Billing Questions
What are the methods of Payments?
Why was my credit card denied?
Do you accept cash, cashiers checks or money orders?
Your Account
What is gay Hook Ups?
Who can be a member?
What do I need to join?
What if I don't have an e-mail address?
What are you going to do with my e-mail address?
Do I need to pay to bber?
Will anyone have access to my e-mail address?
How do I contact you?
| Creating your Profile | To Top |
How do I create my profile?
Creating and posting a profile is free and only takes a bit of time. If you're logged in now, you've probably already finished the first step. To finish the rest, login and click on the “Profile” tab on the top menu then select Edit Profile on the right side of the screen. From there you can go to various profile pages and complete them. IMPORTANT click Save” located on the bottom of the page when you're done or your changes will not be saved.
What is a headline?
The headline on your profile stands out and helps to attract attention to your profile.
The headline is always visible, site-wide. A headline is required, and can be a maximum of 64 characters in length.
How do I build my profile?
Click on the Build Profile link to customize your profile. You don’t have to use this area but if you want to give your profile your own personal touch, then this is where you can change the layout of your profile by moving components about. You can also change the profile background color by clicking on the Background link on the right side of the page and selecting a new color. Try it!
There are five (5) sections in the default template and six (6) sections in the advanced template, and thirteen (13) profile components to move about. You can have more than one component in each section. However, three of the thirteen are optional HTML elements that you can build yourself. If you don’t know any HTML then don’t worry; you can still experiment with the other ten (10) components.
Try different layouts my clicking and dragging components into one of the six profile areas. To remove a component from a section, click on the cross in the top right corner of the component. If you don’t want to use any of this, just leave all the boxes empty and the default layout will be used.
How do I edit my profile?
Click on the Edit Profile link to change any of the content of your profile; your personal details, your free text area etc. Remember to save your changes! Click the Save button at the foot of the page
How do I use HTML in my profile?
Click on the Profile HTML link to add HTML that will form the HTML components mentioned above. For example, you could add a link to a picture on another site, or add music player codes. Use the preview button to check the code works, then click the save button to save it. (Please note we reserve the right to remove any HTML code that is in violation of the member agreement, is inappropriate or may be potentially harmful to the site).
What are some tips to remember?
Your profile is the first impression you make, so put your best foot forward. Be honest, have fun and stay positive. Your profile gives you the chance to speak directly to any member that may review it.
Can I preview my profile?
Click on the Preview Profile link in order to see your profile the way all other members will view it.
Are profiles censored? Is there any limit to what I can put in my profile?
We do review all profiles prior to them being given a “reviewed status” and approved for permanent inclusion on the site. We do have certain guidelines when we review profiles and will not approve any profiles that violate the Terms of Use for the site, or that suggest in any way illegal activities , child abuse or any other actions that place or may place an individual in harms way. You will be advised if a problem has been located in your profile and given the opportunity to resolve the issue . If corrections are not made within three (3) days the user account will be suspended, if after thirty (30) days the account remains suspended it will be cancelled without further notice.
Why should I post a picture in my profile?
First it is a policy of the site to require a photo of the member be uploaded. The photo can be locked and not up for public view, but your profile will not be approved if no pictures have been uploaded of YOU. Say what you will, but guys are 14 times more likely to look at a profile with a photo. And members with photos get up to 15 times more attention than those without one. So you can be nice and funny or you can be nice, funny, and get more attention by adding your photo today.
Can I hide my photo?
You can take a break by hiding your profile at any time. Just log in and click on My Profile at the top of any page, and make the appropriate selection under Visibility Options. But remember…you never know when that one person might be looking for you
How long does it take to have my profile approved?
Depending on the number of profiles and photos being submitted at the time your changes should be reviewed within six (6) hours.
Why do you approve profiles?
Approving profiles is something that takes a great deal of time and resources. Because we are an adult business on the web there are certain legal standards that must be adhered to.
We have developed our standards based on the Guideline Communications Decency Act and other legal guidelines that have been developed for adult web sites.
We do not permit pictures that risk our business nor do we permit any personal information this is a risk to the member (such as a private email address or phone number) to be posted on any profile. The bottom line is we must approve profiles to protect our members and ourselves.
We make every effort to ensure that the most up to date content is displayed. We approve profiles throughout the day and night, a profile will rarely sit more then an hour without being approved or rejected.
How do I temporarily turn my listing off?
In order to place your profile you must be logged on and on your “Home” page On the bottom left of that page you will see a box labeled Important Tasks. The last entry has a box labeled Your Status where you will see the option to put your profile on hold simply click on it and the status will change from “ Active to “On hold” You can reverse this action by selecting to make the profile active again.
How do I permanently remove my listing and delete my account?
Well we hope that never happens but understand if it does. Just login and click on the “Profile” tab on the top menu then select Edit Profile on the right side of the screen. From there go to the bottom of the about me” page click on the link “Profile Unregister”. Please make note this action is irreversible and once you confirm the selection your profile and all content will be permanently deleted.
Are profiles Censored or is there a limit to what I can put in it?
We do review all profiles prior to them being given a "reviewed status" and approved for permanent inclusion on the site. We do have certain guidelines when we review profiles and will not approve any profiles that violate the Terms of Use for the site, or that suggest in any way illegal activities , child abuse or any other actions that place or may place an individual in harms way. You will be advised if a problem has been located in your profile and given the opportunity to resolve the issue . If corrections are not made within three (3) days the user account will be suspended, if after thirty (30) days the account remains suspended it will be cancelled without further notice.
Again standards include but are not limited to:
No reference to children is permitted
No reference to sex with animals is permitted
Escort profile or any references to money are not permitted
No profile may mention the use of any drug use or other illegal activity
Outside email addresses or web address are not permitted
No ad may contain disparaging remarks about gayhookups.net or any individual regardless of if they are a member or not
We apologize but ads posted by women are not allowed as this is a male adult network
| Online Experience |
What happens when I click "Online"?
When you click "ONLINE" all the men that are online now in the area you are browsing in are displayed
What happens when I click Rate Photos?
You will be presented with all the members photos that you have not reviewed. You will have the opportunity to rate a picture between 1 and 5 as you do so the next picture will show itself until there are no more photos to rate.
What happens when I click "Top Photos"
You will see a numbered photo pictorial of the members getting the highest votes on the site.
What happens when I click "Members"?
When you click MEMBERS the profiles that exist in the area you are browsing in are displayed
What happens when I click "Top Members"?
When you click on Top members you will see a list of members in your area that get the most attention on the site.
| General |
What is a headline?
The headline on your profile stands out and helps to attract attention to your profile.
The headline is always visible, site-wide. A headline is required, and can be a maximum of 64 characters in length.
Can I report Abuse or other Guidelines that people do not follow on GayHookUps.net?
ABSOLUTLTY, and we encourage you to do so. The only way you can make sure a bad/dangerous experience never happens to another person is to report to us and if needed the authorities. Remember this is supposed to be a safe and friendly place to meet people, and we need to come together as a community and think about the bigger picture. As a whole group looking out for one another we can achieve this. We have all encountered situations that the person has not been held accountable because we did nothing. In doing so we allow another person to experience the same thing again and like it or not each of us are responsible for letting that happen.
Why do I see my old images after I delete them?
As with your profile, your old pictures will remain until member services has approved the changes in your profile. You may however lock them if you don't want them to be seen until they are deleted.
Do you tell other members my e-mail address or real name?
We use a double-blind email system to preserve your privacy. It replaces your real email address with your username, then forwards your messages to the members you`re emailing.
Please note: If you reply to an email from another gayhookups.net member directly from your email program, make sure you've turned off your auto-signatures and auto-responders. If you don`t, you could unintentionally send your personal information along with your message. Read through your responses to make sure your actual email address does not appear. Also, be sure not to copy (cc:) or forward email to yourself when you send a message from your own email program.
Are there any hidden costs?
No!
Do you monitor or edit my private messages that I might send to other GayHookUps.net members?
Like the saying goes what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas, and although we do scan messages for words or phases that would clearly be in violation of policies and place anyone at risk we will not allow that message to be successfully delivered. We will notify you of the reason the mail or communication was stopped and provide you with the words or phases that we blocked. We do not see your entire email only the objectionable content.
How can I contact your customer service department?
You can email us at memberservices@gayhookups.net or phone us at 800-681-4806 between 9am and 5pm est.
Are all these people real? Am I going to meet someone?
At our site, we don't tell you what type of relationship is right for you or if you will find what you are looking for. Our goal is to broaden your social horizons, and our belief is that by meeting a variety of people, you will find that special someone. And that can happen a lot sooner than you think. People from your area and all over the world are drawn to our site. Some seek casual relationships while others search for great friendships that will stand the test of time. Yet, regardless of the end result, we believe that... EVERY RELATIONSHIP BEGINS WITH A "LETS MEET"!
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Is online social networking really safe?
Online social networking is no more or less safe than any other kind of networking. Most tips are just common sense, and should be used in any dating/meeting situation. The most important ones are to meet in a safe, public place, and make sure you`re not feeling pressured. It's also a good idea to let someone you know where you are going or just leave a note on your bar about who you are meeting and the details. One can never be too safe is the general rule here. If you EVER encounter an uncomfortable situation stay calm and remove yourself as quickly as possible. If you feel the person is a danger please report your situation to member services immediately. However, we are not the local police and whenever you feel you were placed in danger your first call should be to the police in your area.
| Blogging |
What happens when I click on "BLOGS"
This is where you can start writing your BLOGS and reading other peoples BLOGS. You can also comment on blogs that are posted also.
Is Credibility important for a BLOG?
Building Credibility is something that is well worth working on as a blogger. We live in a world where people are increasingly suspicious of information that they’re presented with (particularly online where there’s a lot of dubious information going around) so when people find a credible source of information they tend to become very loyal to it (and they will pass it on to others)
What is a blog?
It’s a good question to ask at the beginning of a Blogging for Beginners Series as it is a question I am asked every week.
There are a number of ways I could answer this question ranging from the broad to the highly technical but Ill keep it simple for now.
A blog is a website in which items are posted on a regular basis and displayed in reverse chronological order. The term blog is a shortened form of weblog or web log. Authoring a blog, maintaining a blog or adding an article to an existing blog is called “blogging”. Individual articles on a blog are called “blog posts,” “posts” or “entries”. A person who posts these entries is called a “blogger”. A blog comprises text, hypertext, images, and links (to other web pages and to video, audio and other files). Blogs use a conversational style of documentation. Often blogs focus on a particular “area of interest”, such as Washington, D.C.’s political goings-on. Some blogs discuss personal experiences.
Blogs are usually (but not always) written by one person and are updated pretty regularly. Blogs are often (but not always) written on a particular topic - there are blogs on virtually any topic you can think of. From photography, to spirituality, to recipes, to personal diaries to hobbies - blogging has as many applications and varieties as you can imagine. Whole blog communities have sprung up around some of these topics putting people into contact with each other in relationships where they can learn, share ideas, make friends with and even do business with people with similar interests from around the world.
What are the features of a Blog?
Blogs usually have a few features that are useful to know about if you want to get the most out of them as a reader. Lets examine a couple briefly.
Archives - You might look at the front page of a blog and think that there is not much to them. A few recent entries, some links to other sites and not much else. However its worth knowing that there is a lot more going on under the surface that might initially meet the eye. For example in addition to the main page of a blog - there may be hundreds of other pages or posts below the surface that the blogger has written over the past few months or years.
When you write a post it goes to the top of the front page. As it gets older and as you add more current posts it begins its journey down the page until it disappears from it. This is not the end of its life however, because it goes into the ‘Archives’ of your blog. It sounds like a dusty dark place but its really just like a filing cabinet that is easily accessible in a couple of ways. You can read a blogs ‘archives’ simply by looking on the ’sidebar’ at the ‘archives’ or ‘categories’ section. There you will see links to all the old posts which you can access either by category.
Comments - Not all blogs use comments - but most do. This blog is not a monologue but a conversation. You can give the blogger feedback on almost everything they write simply by clicking the ‘comments’ link at the bottom of each one of the posts. This will take you to a little form where you leave your name, email and a link to your own blog if you have one as well as your feedback, comment, critique, question, essay on why you love the blog,
A great way to learn about blogs is to read a few. Leave some comments, ask questions and bookmark your favorites. An even better way to learn about blogs is to start your own. Ok - you might be laughing now - you think you are not web savy enough to have your own site? You wouldn’t know where to start? You don’t know how?
I don't know where to start? I don’t know how?
Step 1: Identify the BLOGS goals (what are you trying to do? How will you achieve it)
Step 2: Identify your audience (who are they, and where do they come from)
Step 3: Identify specific needs (what functions does the site need to have in order to meet its goals?)
| Photos |
How do I post pictures on GayHookUps?
Just click on your home page and then select Photo on the right hand side of your screen, you can upload your pictures from there. Be sure that your Pics are either PNG or JPG in format.
To upload a picture click on the picture slot you would like to use. The first picture is always public, but you can upload the others as private and unlock them for the guys you want to unlock them for.
You will then need to browse to the location of the picture on your computer. Once you have found the picture you want to upload select that file and click OPEN. Then click the SUBMIT button under the slot you would like the photo displayed in. Your picture should now display.
Is a photo mandatory?
Yes, in order to maintain your account or even open an account you must post a photo. Your photo can be locked but must be present in your profile. We do this to help other members be sure they are dealing with legitimate people.
What type of photo can I upload?
The photos you post must be of you, but do not need to reveal your identity. They must not reveal anyone else's identity or have anyone else in the photo with you unless the profile is a couples profile.
Other standards include:
No picture may include a child EVER*
No picture may include an animal in a sexual position EVER
No picture may include poppers, or any drug paraphernalia EVER
Pictures that show anything inserted into the anus must be private
No scat pictures allowed - public or private
No WS pictures allowed - public or private
Blood or violence is not allowed - public or private
* We at Gay Hook Ups find that the mistreatment or abuse of any child one of the most objectionable acts a person can to to another. It is our policy to turn over to local authorities any picture that is uploaded that depicts any kind of child abuse.
I posted my picture but I don't see it online, why?
All new content must be approved before it will appear online.
If you have posted your picture but do not see it online it is most likely waiting for approval.
We approve profile pictures 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. A profile rarely sits more than an hour before being approved.
| Billing Questions |
What are the methods of Payments?
We accept MasterCard, JCB, Diners and Discover Cards (we do not currently accept Visa), we also offer check online payments and 900 telephone billing service options.
Why was my credit card denied?
This could happen for any number of reasons, however, we are not the approval processor. In the event of any issues please follow the link in the e-mail that notifies you of the failure.
Do you accept cash, cashiers checks or money orders?
We are not able to accept cash in the mail but we will be happy to take money orders or certified bank checks in the mail. However we would suggest that you first try one of our other payment options listed above. If you have no choice or prefer to send certified funds please email member services and request instructions on submitting this form of payment.
| Your Account |
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What are you going to do with my e-mail address?
Should you forget your password we will use your email address to send you your password. You also have the option of being notified when you have new mail and matches in your inbox.
You can set your notification preferences by clicking PREFERENCES on your home page.
We will use your email address to contact you if there is a problem with your account or an important notification of a change that will affect your account.
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